charlene wall jeffs , 58 , is one of a reported nine wives of lyle jeffs .
the couple married in 1983 and have 10 children together .
he stepped up to lead the fundamentalist church of jesus christ of latter-day saints when brother warren jeffs was sentenced to prison in 2007 .
mrs jeffs says she spent years in exile before being banished last year .
alleged the church only allow a group of men called ` seed bearers ' to impregnate women , and the husbands stand by holding their wife 's hand .
mrs jeffs is fighting for custody of two of her children .